Relationships

When it comes to relationships most fall into one of two categories; Transactional or Transformational.

Transactional relationships involve individuals who participate or invest in the relationship only when they anticipate receiving something in return. This approach is prevalent because it is more straightforward and immediate. However, the benefits are temporary and do not have the deep foundations necessary for long-term success.

Transformational relationships are a long-term commitment where you invest in the relationship without expecting anything in return. This involves investing in the other person and the authenticity of the relationship, rather than for personal benefit. The benefits of these relationships can endure a lifetime and return to you in unexpected ways.

Investing in transformational relationships have a compounding effect. The rewards gained in this type of relationship come from seeing the person you impacted pass that gift along to others. That is the true reward!

As Proverbs 27:17 says "iron sharpens iron, as one man sharpens another."

Those you choose to develop relationships with the most and keep closest to you will have the largest impact on your life. A great friend of mine taught me that you are the average of the five people closest to you. We should all choose wisely to who those five people are.

Your five people might not be who you think either. The 5 people closest to you are the ones that control your thoughts the most. For some they could be the author they read, podcast they listen to, a friend, spouse, parent, or co-worker. The ones who effect your thoughts the most are the ones who will have the greatest impact on our lives.

As we move in the direction of our most dominant thoughts, our lives will trend in the direction of those who are impacting our thoughts the most. If you want to see your future, look at your circle and there it will appear.

To wrap up, seek out genuine transformational relationships and invest in them. Build your circle with those who value those relationships and continue to impact those around you.

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